If you love someone, but you're unsure whether they feel the same way, it can tear you up inside. Every day, your doubt grows, and if it does not, it seesaws back and forth. Because love is different for every couple, there is no owner's manual that you can check to figure out if the person you love loves you back. However, there are some signs that come up for many people who love each other. If you want to solve the mystery of love, look no further.
1
Make eye contact with the other person. How does the other person respond? They might:
• Look back longingly into your eyes, refusing to let go of your eyes. Definitely agood sign. He/She loves you hopelessly.
• Avert eyes quickly, blushing or suddenly sweating. This is another good sign. He/She is at least interested in you, but doesn't want you to know.
• Look at you quickly, seemingly uninterested, and then look at you as if you are someone's little sister/brother. A bad sign. He/She probably doesn't think of you in the way you think of her/him.
• Not look at you at all. This is a tough sign to read. It could mean she doesn't notice you; it could mean he or she's good at keeping things under wraps.
Make a joke and see how they respond. Humans talk a lot, but often our body language says a lot more about us than our words do. We smile and laugh for people we like; we scowl and stay silent for people we don't. Try making a joke. It doesn't have to be a very good joke, even. How does the person respond? Do they:
• Laugh at a bad joke because they can't help smiling around you? That's a goodsign. You can do no wrong in his/her eyes.
• Politely force out a laugh but look uncomfortable? This is a tough one to read. They may be uncomfortable because they like you, or they may be uncomfortable because they're decent and they don't want you to feel bad.
• Not laugh at all and look at you coldly. That's a bad sign. She or he isn't interested in you enough to try at a social gathering.
3
Smile and see how they respond. A lot like joking around, smiling at someone will usually produce a response. If the person likes you, they are certain to smile back. If the person doesn't like you, they're more likely to not smile back. Consider these things when "reading into" a smile:
• A person could simply be caught off guard by your smile. They would love to smile back at you, but yours was so unexpected that they didn't know how to react.
• A person may choose not to smile even if they like you. Pretty much, they are convinced that you don't like them, and so they don't want to show you their feelings because they don't want to deal with the rejection.
3
Smile and see how they respond. A lot like joking around, smiling at someone will usually produce a response. If the person likes you, they are certain to smile back. If the person doesn't like you, they're more likely to not smile back. Consider these things when "reading into" a smile:
• A person could simply be caught off guard by your smile. They would love to smile back at you, but yours was so unexpected that they didn't know how to react.
• A person may choose not to smile even if they like you. Pretty much, they are convinced that you don't like them, and so they don't want to show you their feelings because they don't want to deal with the rejection.
If you love someone, but you're unsure whether they feel the same way, it can tear you up inside. Every day, your doubt grows, and if it does not, it seesaws back and forth. Because love is different for every couple, there is no owner's manual that you can check to figure out if the person you love loves you back. However, there are some signs that come up for many people who love each other. If you want to solve the mystery of love, look no further.
1
Make eye contact with the other person. How does the other person respond? They might:
• Look back longingly into your eyes, refusing to let go of your eyes. Definitely agood sign. He/She loves you hopelessly.
• Avert eyes quickly, blushing or suddenly sweating. This is another good sign. He/She is at least interested in you, but doesn't want you to know.
• Look at you quickly, seemingly uninterested, and then look at you as if you are someone's little sister/brother. A bad sign. He/She probably doesn't think of you in the way you think of her/him.
• Not look at you at all. This is a tough sign to read. It could mean she doesn't notice you; it could mean he or she's good at keeping things under wraps.
Make a joke and see how they respond. Humans talk a lot, but often our body language says a lot more about us than our words do. We smile and laugh for people we like; we scowl and stay silent for people we don't. Try making a joke. It doesn't have to be a very good joke, even. How does the person respond? Do they:
• Laugh at a bad joke because they can't help smiling around you? That's a goodsign. You can do no wrong in his/her eyes.
• Politely force out a laugh but look uncomfortable? This is a tough one to read. They may be uncomfortable because they like you, or they may be uncomfortable because they're decent and they don't want you to feel bad.
• Not laugh at all and look at you coldly. That's a bad sign. She or he isn't interested in you enough to try at a social gathering.
3
Smile and see how they respond. A lot like joking around, smiling at someone will usually produce a response. If the person likes you, they are certain to smile back. If the person doesn't like you, they're more likely to not smile back. Consider these things when "reading into" a smile:
• A person could simply be caught off guard by your smile. They would love to smile back at you, but yours was so unexpected that they didn't know how to react.
• A person may choose not to smile even if they like you. Pretty much, they are convinced that you don't like them, and so they don't want to show you their feelings because they don't want to deal with the rejection.
3
Smile and see how they respond. A lot like joking around, smiling at someone will usually produce a response. If the person likes you, they are certain to smile back. If the person doesn't like you, they're more likely to not smile back. Consider these things when "reading into" a smile:
• A person could simply be caught off guard by your smile. They would love to smile back at you, but yours was so unexpected that they didn't know how to react.
• A person may choose not to smile even if they like you. Pretty much, they are convinced that you don't like them, and so they don't want to show you their feelings because they don't want to deal with the rejection.
Comments
Post a Comment