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20 AWESOME TIPS ON RELATIONSHIP . . 1. Free yourself from negative people. ——————————– 2. Let go of those who are already gone. ——————————– 3. Give people you don’t know a fair chance. ——————————– 4. Show everyone kindness and respect. ——————————– 5. Accept people just the way they are. ——————————– 6. Encourage others and cheer for them. ——————————– 7. Be your imperfectly perfect self. ——————————– 8. Forgive people and move forward. ——————————– 9. Do little things every day for others. ——————————– 10. Pay attention to who your real friends are. ——————————– 11. Always be loyal. ——————————– 12. Stay in better touch with people who matter to you. ——————————– 13. Keep your promises and tell the truth. ——————————– 14. Give what you want to receive. ——————————– 15. Say what you mean and mean what you say. ——————————– 16. Allow others to make their own decisions. ——————————– 17. Talk a little less, and listen more. ——————————– 18. Leave petty argument alone. ——————————– 19. Ignore unconstru...

As a lady you should be in control of the relationship indirectly. You decide when sex should be involved it in. You determine the progression of the relationship. You determine whether there should be touch, holding hands, kissing, hugging etc. You have the power to control the relationship, you do, believe me. Except in an instance of rape, no man sleeps with a lady without her consent. So, who should be blamed when the relationship does not go through the normal progression? The guy? NO. There are 7 steps in building a lasting relationship, Strangers, acquaintance, friends, relationship, engaged, courtship and marriage. But what happens most of the time, the lady takes what belongs to level 7 of the relationship and gives it to the guy in level one. She jumps the ladder and the result is usually regret. Relationships are not for gambling, your heart is too precious to be gambled with. Take things easy, take your time, why the rush? you will soon get tired of emotional affection....

Love is this AND Is not that...... WRITTEN BY DR OKEY . The ultimate dilemma of any youngster is to categorize his/her feelings into the similar, yet very different, brackets of love or infatuation. A young mind may consider every liking to be a case of pure, undying love. He/she would see any attempt to dissuade him/her about the truth of this "love" as an insult to their feelings. . * Where does the thin line between love and infatuation lie? * How do we know one from the other? . Though it usually takes a considerable amount of experience to completely demarcate the two, there are some basic differences. I will try to explain them here. . Infatuation is a feeling that has a reasonable basis. One can point out exactly what one likes about the object of one's affection. Good looks is the most common reason behind an infatuation. Intelligence, personality, a cheerful disposition or a great sense of style are other things that might lead one to be infatuated by s...

I don’t believe that there is anything wrong for a lady to help a guy to finance their marriage rites. We Africans have a mentality that needs to be changed. If you have met a guy and the friendship has blossomed into a relationship and you have accepted him, then you should put your resources together to actualize that dream of marriage. If both parents have been informed and your Pastor is aware of the relationship, probably you are undergoing the marriage classes, at this point though both of you are not married, there is nothing like ‘my money’ and ‘his money’ both of you should put your resources together to actualize that marriage vision. All hands are not equal, the whole money for the marriage rites must not come from him alone, you should be able to assist him as a lady financially no matter how little it is. Most times, some ladies think that he must foot every bill regarding the marriage rites, this mindset is wrong. Help with the little you can afford, make the man see y...

If this trend continues the way it is going, then most ladies will never get married. The average lady’s expectation about who to marry is too high. Often you will hear them itemize very lofty requirements a man must possess before they will accept him as a husband. Question then is; You that is looking for a man that has a car, how many cars do you have as a lady? You want someone who earns 500k as salary per month, dear sister how much is your own salary? Do you even have a job? There is nothing wrong having Dangote or Bill Gate as your father in-law, but don’t forget that most rich guys today had very humble beginnings. Why does it take 2 to 3 years for a lady to respond to a proposal from a guy? Ok she said she wants to pray about it and for 3 years the Lord has not answered? But if the guy has a car and he is wealthy even when the source of his wealth is questionable, it will not take two weeks for the prayer to be answered abi Chai there is god ooo lolz. Dear Sister ther...

1. Living with a man who has not paid wedded u. ~ 2. Accepting to be a second wife. ~ 3. Wearing the engagement ring of man who doesn't even know your home, seen your parents or received their consent. ~ 4. Using your boyfriend's picture as your profile picture. ~ 5. Giving your BRIDE PRIDE (virginity) to a man who has not married you. ~ 6. Bathing naked with your boyfriend ~ 7. Cooking food regularly and washing clothes for your boyfriend. ~ 8. Public show of romance with your boyfriend. ~ 9. Disobeying your parents for the sake of a man who your parents don't even know or have accepted. ~ 10. Disobeying God because of a guy. Some girls would say, I know it's wrong to have sex with him, but I love him and don't want him to get another girl.....It shows how cheap and stupid such a girl is to choose to please a man rather than God. Giving a man sex simply because he promised you marriage. I'm sorry for being raw, green whatever you call it........Just don...

After reading a post by one of our Admin about a guy who is in a fix right now not knowing what to do concerning a lady he has been planning to marry, I can’t but wonder why people will not listen to instructions. When i hear young people say ‘No one will tell me who to marry it is my life’ immediately I see someone who is about to make a terrible mistake in his/her married life. I don’t really mean that people should tell you who to marry NO; the point is that, when many people are in these their so called LOVE, their sense of reasoning disappears, their brains stop thinking, their ears stop hearing, and they go completely mute. So when the parents, brothers/sister, close friend/relatives tell them, this man/woman is not good for you, their sense of reasoning is already beclouded by infatuation, they would not listen. Probably because they have tested some stuff and thought they can’t live with it. This is one of the dangers of getting emotionally attached to someone before making a ...

4. Deflecting Simple Questions When your girlfriend starts acting suspicious and starts to avoid very simple questions then this could be a sign that she’s hiding something. If she immediately repeats your questions back to you before answering then chances are good that she’s searching her mind for a lie. On the same token, she may become very defensive when you ask her questions about her whereabouts or future plans. As a general rule of thumb, if she starts to deflect information that she used to volunteer in the past, she is hiding something that she doesn’t want to tell you about. 5. Shift in Priorities If a woman is involved in heavy romance with another man then she will definitely start to shift her priorities away from yours. All of a sudden, she won’t have time to see you and she will start to break-off regular meetings that you used to have with her. Also, if there is a sudden switch in dates for particular events like dance-lessons or work schedule then she’s probabl...

1. Family Detachment One sign that she may be cheating is that she detaches herself from your family. She may also stop hanging out with your friends as well. The reason women do this is out of remorse. Basically, she feels guilty and will feel less pain if she isn’t immersed in your life- including family or friends. Remember, the less mental baggage she has holding her back, the easier it will be for her to commit the deed. 2. Consistent Nagging The days of harmonious communication are gone when a women decides to do nothing but nag. Basically, she will find every excuse to lash out and argue with you. The reason a woman will do this is to justify her deed by rationalizing that it wasn’t working out with your anyway. It helps eliminate a lot of her guilt. So if a woman starts to point out every flaw and starts arguments about every little thing then it could be a sign that she has been unfaithful or is going to. 3. The Mysterious Friend One telltale sign that a woman is being un...

You’re just a “man up” What this statement mean is simply, you are not man enough. You can imagine what kind of damage such statement will do to any man’s ego. Even if your guy lack any things that you thing all men should have, you shouldn’t tell your guy that, he’s man up, not from you at all. Maybe your guy is not the toughest or muscular or manly enough compare to some other guys out there. He does not need you to point it out to him. Do you still think about your ex? Talking about ex is one of the many talks you’re going to talk about when you’re just starting up a new relationship, but when you’re already in it, you should never mention anything about his ex or even yours too. Wanting to know more details about his ex is a complete turn off to him. You’ll be better off talking about presence in his life and how you’re going to be the real woman instead of making his ex a treat in the relationship, which it wasn’t. other similar comment like this are; “my ex was just like that...

The bedrock of a good relationship is proper communication, the more you communicate with your man, the more you understand him and the better for your relationship. It is always good to share everything with your partner, it will make him trust you the more. However, there is some statement you shouldn’t say to your guy. No matter your level of communication, such statement really hurt. As much as you want to be talking every now and then, avoid making statements that are hurtful to your guy, if you value your relationship. Statement Your Guy Don’t Want To Hear From YouThese 5 statements should be avoided when you want to talk to or communicate with him, don’t say it to his hearing. I will be ok, don’t worry about me Words like this are so much annoying, you will get your guy pissed off, if you make statement like this. Why is he your boyfriend in the first place if you don’t want him to care about you? Of course, he has his own life and lots of other things to worry about in his...

Hey you, Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. . . I’ll be real with you, sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You have got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. . . You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it you. And I know it’s hard when your heart has labeled that person as someone you could spend forever with, but you just have to accept that they’re not that person anymore. And you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of why things didn’t work out. TRUST ME .

1. Do not cohabit with a man who has not married you. Do not live with your boyfriend in the same house. Even if he is your fiance, do not live with him in the same house. You will look too cheap, people will be seeing you as a prostitute and a useless girl. A good name and reputation is better than anything in the world. 2. Do not be pregnant for your boyfriend. It is senseless. Avoid pregnancy if you are not  married. Note that you can never use pregnancy to tie a man down. Your boyfriend will either deny the pregnancy or he will tell you to go and abort it. Pregnancy before marriage is not Godly and it is a shame to you and your family. 3. Avoid abortion. Abstain from sex. If there is no sex, there will be no abortion. Condom is not a guarantee at all. Sex is not food. You can live without it. 4. Do not abandon your parents and family because of one boyfriend. Sometimes love makes some people to be stupid. Don't lose your senses because of love. Be in charge o...

When you see what you really like, go all out for it. Yes, go. But if it belongs to someone else, don't. Always ask questions and obey the right rules. Be just . Hard work pays. But not all that pays, pay good. Some profits of today bring tears of tomorrow. . Be disciplined in every pursuit. Over Speeding kills. Pace and pause wisely. Life has rhythm. Dance your day through. Learn till you get it. Don't be too quick to switch trade or business because someone else you know is doing good on it. Stay on your small lane. Your destiny is not the same. If you must switch, learn first. Never let quick profits drive you. Let good service move you What makes you rejoice today could make you shed tears the next. Be mindful. Chart a life map and place yourself on it as a journey man/ woman. .Speak to yourself everyday. The way you look matters but that which you know about yourself matters even more. What do you know about you? Are you confused? Seek wisdom by connec...

Some marriage proposals these days has become a thing of fraud. These fraudsters know and can perceive the body language of a desperate single. Before they get close,they study you from afar and make a good well calculated plan on how to rob you mentally,drain you emotionally,wash you off sexually and finally dry you financially. They pose as if they are so interested in you and would pretend to be the best person you have ever met but the moment they throw in Bomb 1 and you escape,they begin to act funny and get chills down their spine,then they throw in Bomb 2 and you also narrowly escaped because you aint just working with your heart but with your brain..their so called love starts diminishing. They start getting furious,angry and start hating for no reason. When these people lurk around,put your eyes down and know their motives before you give your precious heart out. They are there to give you want you want to hear and take millions of things you least expect,they are on ...

The truth about Giving and your Christian Faith. Giving is an act of faith. Giving is a revelation. Giving is the demonstration of your love for the Lord. You can not love without giving. God showed us an example of this when He gave Christ. The bible is very clear when it comes to giving. If you do not give, you will not receive. It is like holding a corn seed and asking to receive maize before you plant it, it does not work that way. You must plant if you want to reap. I am a giver and a Partner and I am glad for the opportunity to be one. The bible says Give and it shall be; 1. Giving unto you. 2. Good measures. 3. Pressed down, 4. Shaken together. 5. Running over. 6. Shall men give into your bosom. So giving is indispensable. There are also different kinds of giving though. Apart from your Tithe which is really not a gift but an oblation, every other giving is determined by you. Then what happens when you are coerced into giving? What happens when giving is emphasized ...

Complain and Excuses at the Mention of Marriage You can sit together with your partner and talk for a very long hours, you can play and tease one another, do all sort of romantic play but when it get to the point where you try bringing in issues relate to marriage and wanting him to be firmed and say something good about it. His countenance changes, he tries to change the topic, you observe uneasiness in his body reactions, and he show disapproval with his body language. All these signs are pointing to one fact, that he will not ask your hand in marriage. A man that want you to be the mother of his unborn children, will not show you signs like all of these when you mention marriage or bring in marriage discussion into your conversation. Since he knows that he won’t marry you, he will begin to give you reasons and excuses why you should not be talking about marriage for now in your relationship. Someone like that can give you excuses like; he wants his marriage with you to be...

Signs That He Will Not Ask Your Hand in Marriage He has been the man after your heart and you love him so much and think your present relationship is far better than your past relationship. There is no doubt about how you consider one relationship better than the other, you are the one who can decide that, and no one will be able to rate how better any of your relationship is. The question you should be asking yourself is, is this my present relationship will lead to marriage? If your previous relationship did not provide you the answer to your marriage question, then, the present relationship should be able to give you the answer you’ve been searching for. Now, to find out if your present relationship could answer your question, then you will need to look out for these signs I will be writing about in this post. They are going to give you a clue that will determine if your guy will take it a step further than the past guys you’d been in relationship with in the past and  wa...

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1 ) 2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses toyour family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.(Eph 5v12) 3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.(Prov 15v13) 4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish. 5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22) 6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.(Gen 2v24) 7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility. (Eph 5v33) <script async s...

He's a serial cheat but I love the money and lifestyle I keep finding lipstick and foundation marks on his shirts, blonde hairs on his jacket, and condoms in his wallet (I’m on the pill). The other day I got hold of his phone and discovered loads of girls’ numbers and sexy texts too. He runs a nightclub and is something of a local name. Women are impressed by his fast car and air of power and literally throw themselves at him for free drinks and introductions to local celebrities. And before we met he had a reputation for sleeping his way through the club. The other night he actually called me the wrong name in bed, which absolutely devastated me. I’m the homemaker, while he brings in the money – but I’m so unhappy. I feel powerless, because he supports me and I’ve got a good lifestyle.

Please i want to know if this is right because this is the second times now it happened . I want out with hubby and the younger brother with his wife, both of them was in back while i was in the front with my hubby he's the one driving. On our way going to traditional wedding that same day, my hubby friend that came back from London called that he want to follow us to the wedding, on getting to his place to pick him, he offered us drinks and after that we all came out to continue our journey, immediately my hubby friend jump to the front seat i look at my hubby he looked at me back. As from that moment I was not happy until we came. Due he apologize that it would repeat again that any of his friends who tried that again, that he will tell the person to go at the back sit. Please i want to ask if i acted well., because i see it as an insult from his friends

Have a sneaking suspicion that your husband is unsatisfied with your marriage? Below, psychologists and marriage therapists offer 7 common signs that a spouse may be growing restless in a relationship. 1. He feels like he can't win. Don't think your heavy sighs and the comments made under your breath are going unnoticed. Unhappily married men often say they feel as though their wives are never satisfied with anything they do, said Kurt Smith, a Northern California-based marriage and family therapist who specializes in counseling for men. "For some guys, they never feel like they can make their wife happy. Regardless of the issue, they don't do it enough, they do it too much or they never do it right," he explained. To counter the negativity, Smith said spouses need to put more effort into recognizing helpful, positive things their husbands do around the house or for the family. "The problem is, many men feel like their partners only notice when they...