Part 2 Signs That He Will Not Ask Your Hand in Marriage.

Complain and Excuses at the Mention of Marriage

You can sit together with your partner and talk for a very long hours, you can play and tease one another, do all sort of romantic play but when it get to the point where you try bringing in issues relate to marriage and wanting him to be firmed and say something good about it. His countenance changes, he tries to change the topic, you observe uneasiness in his body reactions, and he show disapproval with his body language. All these signs are pointing to one fact, that he will not ask your hand in marriage.

A man that want you to be the mother of his unborn children, will not show you signs like all of these when you mention marriage or bring in marriage discussion into your conversation.

Since he knows that he won’t marry you, he will begin to give you reasons and excuses why you should not be talking about marriage for now in your relationship. Someone like that can give you excuses like; he wants his marriage with you to be elaborate, he is going to invite the best marriage planner, get a very big venue where families and friends will come from different part of the world to celebrate with him. There is nothing wrong in all that he want for the marriage but when you look at his income and the potential of what he can earn in one or two years, he cannot afford that kind of marriage.

If he is a serious man and really feels concern about marrying you, even with the little he earns, marriage can be done in a little or small capacity and when he earns big or get more money, he can still celebrate your marriage which may even be in form of marriage anniversary if he so much desire.

Get You Pregnant but Ask You to Abort It

This will be at the highest of it all; lots of guys can’t hold themselves even when they are aware that it is unsafe for you. Any meeting at that particular time can result in pregnancy, yet they still want your canal knowledge. They will believe the use of protective will not allow pregnancy to occur after meeting you at your unsafe period. Mistakenly you conceived, the only option they will give you is to go and abort the pregnancy. If you refuse, they will threaten you with ending of their relationship with you, which is of course what will come after at the end of it all. Think twice now, this is a very serious sign that he won’t want to marry you.

You Are Not Known to His Family and Friends

When your man has not made you known to his family and friends and he’s not making any effort to make that possible. That tells you that you’re just wanted for his sexual gratification. He knows that nobody will ask him any question when he dumps you; he’s not responsible to anybody about his relationship with you.

A friend of mine posted something contrary to this on her facebook wall page, she said, taking you to know his family in this present days is just a mere formality, it is not a guarantee that he cannot dump you if he want to. Yes there is an iota of truth in it but is not that common. When you’re made known to the parent, there is already a commitment and not many people love taking different women to their family and friends as their potential wife.

You will need to reconsider your stand in your relationship with men when you begin to experience all of these signs I have highlighted above. They are all letting you know that any man that shows you any of these signs will not ask your hand in marriage and it is better for you now to start thinking of your life away from the hand of the men that shows all of these signs