PART 2. 5 Statements Your Guy Don’t Want To Hear From You

You’re just a “man up” What this statement mean is simply, you are not man enough. You can imagine what kind of damage such statement will do to any man’s ego. Even if your guy lack any things that you thing all men should have, you shouldn’t tell your guy that, he’s man up, not from you at all. Maybe your guy is not the toughest or muscular or manly enough compare to some other guys out there. He does not need you to point it out to him. Do you still think about your ex?

Talking about ex is one of the many talks you’re going to talk about when you’re just starting up a new relationship, but when you’re already in it, you should never mention anything about his ex or even yours too. Wanting to know more details about his ex is a complete turn off to him. You’ll be better off talking about presence in his life and how you’re going to be the real woman instead of making his ex a treat in the relationship, which it wasn’t. other similar comment like this are; “my ex was just like that” “do you like me better than you like your ex” “did your ex do thing like this for you”…. Just stop any form of comparison with ex’s, he doesn’t want to hear them from you. I guess they were right about you When you make statement like ‘I guess they were right about you’, you’re making your man feel less than he is. You have low expectation about him and that’s what makes you succumb to that kind of statement, that you guess people are right about the negative perception about your guy. You will only be putting him in defence mode with this kind of harsh comment, make him feel he’s not good enough for you and anyone else. What a derogatory statement! Nothing’s wrong when there’s something wrong with you This statement is so irritating when you made it to your guy, that you’re already going out. You might have let it out to him unknowingly, and you’re now telling him nothing’s wrong when actually, something is wrong. The statement does not help you in any way and what you’re trying to tell him is that, he’s useless; he can’t help you out with what is wrong with you. Seriously, you should try as much as you can to avoid hurtful statement like these 5 mention above, your guy don’t want to hear it, especially from you.