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Am a lady who believes that true love still exist. Please ma I need Ur coach on something vital to me. Something about me is that if a guy approach me for a relationship if I don't like him I tell him off immediately no matter the pressure from him I still tell him off. They always think am playing hard to get. However if I like him I accept, with this way of mine I have dated 2 that lasted for long due to some understanding factors we had to separ ate. Recently have not been lucky with my normal way.  Now please I need your guide on this. I met a guy who told me his intentions that he wants to settle down. At first I didn't put my interest in him but after our first date( in an open place) I started developing this feelings for him but never told him or let him know. Have been praying to God too about it but I just need some few ideas from u because am not an expert on this. What are the things I can do so I don't look desperate, I can still have mine integrity ...

pls hide my ID.. i want 2 use this medium 2 appreciate d work you are doing to help your fans that are confused in one way or the other.. I am very devastated, with tears in my eyes and a heavy heart writing this.i wouldn't bore u guys with long story. am a 26yrs old lady with many failed relationships..the guy am datin or rather dated broke me cos i didnt expected..he is a friend to one of my cousins though my cousin wasnt in support of t he relationship cos he told me plainly that the guy is playing me.. only for me to hear that he s planning on marrying another girl after a year of dating him(we dont stay in d same town).. Am in tears cos dis guy made me believe that what my cousin told me is d life he lived when he was in school,that he ve changed bla bla.... and am asking why guys are so dishonest? why are dishonest and bad people meet good people in life? why cant guys say simple truth even though it hurts? pls notify when my post is up...Thanks

courtesy  Ijeoma Chukwu . As I waited in the departure lounge of a local airport, I noticed there were many children about but it was understandable since it was summer holiday. One othe r thing I noticed was the way most of the children were dressed. Most of them, especially the girls, were dressed in bum shorts, halter necks, cut off jeans, etc. The clothes in themselves weren't the issue per se; it was the overall look of the children that had me bothered. That was definitely not the first time, I noticed it. A few months before, I had taken my kids to a birthday party and found myself in what could easily have been a night club for kids. Scanty clothing such as tight or very short clothes, bum shorts, long weaves, etc, seemed to be the dresscode. I noticed my daughter glancing around her, probably wondering, "What in God's world are these other children wearing?" Or something like that. Not long after, the kids were called out to dance to the h...

Part 1 9 Undeniable Signs Your Guy is Husband Material If you’re in a relationship, and starting to think about a future together, it’s hard to know if you’re actually dating “The One,” or if you’re heading down a path of destruction. After all, the guy you’re dating could just be someone you get along with, but not the type of guy you see yourself spending the rest of your life with. Unfortunately, there is no crystal ball to tell you one way or the other. Sometimes you just have to rely on your intuition, when it comes to matters of the heart. The problem with this is that even your intuition sometimes needs a guide. How can you know if he’s husband material? Can’t figure out what your intuition is trying to tell you? Here are a few very simple ways to determine if your man is husband material.W

HUSBANDS SHOULD GO TO THE MARKET A TIMES, IT WILL HUMBLE YOU lol. I had a humbling experience last two Saturdays. If you remembered, i shared how my wife loves work lol, While she was busy at home that weekend, I told her that i want to go to the market and buy food stuffs for our use, so as to save her some stress, she busted into laughter and asked me if i was serious, and i said yes. She then wrote a list for me so it will be easier for me when i get to the market. She then handed me the money meant for that project and i left the house for the market. Remember since i got married i have never gone to the market to buy food stuffs. Before i left the house for the market, i just thought to myself, take some extra money in case you needed something else. I took N4000 extra in my pocket just in-case. Hmmm women dey try ooo lol. I went to the market, before i could buy 70% of the list, the money she gave me has finished, Oh boy see trouble. I had to call her from the market and tol...

My girlfriend of 5 years just left me for another guy, and i cant do without her. I want to kill myself. Please advice me.

When a girl loves, she loves for real. When she loves you, she becomes happy, she becomes proud of you and she feels happy when talking to you... She will be friend with your friends and relatives, your likes will be her likes, she will change her life style to fit in yours. No matter how much you disappoint her, she will forgive you before you apologize, yes she loves you. She will try to be a little bit jealous and protective,because she wants you to be hers and only hers.Her boyfriend will now become her EX... because all her future will be in ur hands. She will reject all proposals fromother boys. No matter how far or near you are, she will protect herself for you. She will like everything you post on Facebook no matter how stupid it is... retweet everything you tweet on twitter and will instantly reply to all ur messages on WhatsApp or Facebook, She won't mind, whether you give her Money or not, whether you are rich or not, because her interest in you is your future not w...

10 simple ways to make your marriage stronger 1. When you wake up...no matter how short or long the marriage is, kiss her good morning DONT GREET HER! 2. When he comes home...DONT SIT DOWN, wake up and meet him at the door, a hug and/or kiss and ask how his day was....he spent most of it trying to make sure you guys have food in the house. 3. Before you sleep, PRAY TOGETHER AS A FAMILY, and in your prayers, always thank God for your spouse and for his/her love and dedication to the family. 4. Daily no matter how tired you are, spend a few minutes to discuss how the day was what challenges you both met and how you handled the situation. 5. Find a moment to encourage each other from scriptures. If you can get a devotional guide, let each person handle a day of the week including kids (if they can) 6. Just because you married her, life does not stop. At least once a month, take her out to dinner, spend the evening just the two of you outside the house eating and talking-just the sam...

I think some people are naturally born heartless! Honestly, why would a person enter someone else’s life and make them catch feelings for them, make them believe that they are different from the rest, and that they are to stay with them forever, then they develop love for them, they trust them with their fragile hearts, they be so happy and proud of them, they introduce them in their friends and family members, they open doors that no one has ever opened in their lives, they rely and count on them, they bear all their weaknesses, they lose their friends because they want to keep them, they get abused and called ugly names, they face every storm with them, they sacrifice everything of theirs for them, they do things that they have never done for anyone else, and lastly but not the least they give them their precious bodies. Then a day comes and they decide to change either because of a misunderstanding that can be solved, a rumor that they heard which has no proof, or because they ...

Advice for avoiding scammers - Never ever respond to a request for money. - Never give out bank account or other details. - Beware of the sob story - someone telling you how much they want to visit you but need a loan to pay for the ticket/visas. Or stories about a desperately ill family member who needs help with medical expenses. - The same goes for fantastic too good to be true business deal they are in on – if only they had some extra up-front money….. - Watch out for those profiles that immediately tug on heart strings – supposed ex-serviceman or woman, or those who claim to be recently widowed to gain your trust and sympathy. - Don’t let the passing of time cloud your judgment. These sorts of pitches may take time to come out in messages, time in which you may very well have come to trust and value a relationship with your online contact. That does not make them any less of a lie. - Our same warning goes for pleas of urgency – about money needed at short notice. Someone ask...

FOR MARRIED PEOPLE & COUPLES TO BE!!! 10 Simple Ways To Make Your Marriage Stronger.... 1. When you wake up...no matter how short or long the marriage is, kiss her good morning DONT GREET HER! 2. When he comes home...DONT SIT DOWN, wake up and meet him at the door, a hug and/or kiss and ask how his day was....he spent most of it trying to make sure you guys have food in the house. 3. Before you sleep, PRAY TOGETHER AS A FAMILY, and in your prayers, always thank God for your spouse and for his/her love and dedication to the family. 4. Daily, no matter how tired you are, spend a few minutes to discuss how the day was what challenges you both met and how you handled the situation. 5. Find a moment to encourage each other from scriptures. If you can get a devotional guide, let each person handle a day of the week including kids (if they can) 6. Fans, just because you married her, life does not stop. At least once a month, take her out to dinner, spend the evening just the two of you...

i am a mother of 2 girls and a boy married to my hubby since 2002 we have be staying in my hubby's father house in the village while we based in Port Harcourt, my hubby and i have no personal house of ours in the village only for us to come back home this xmas the elder sister of my hubby for no just reasons locked up the whole building of my late father inlaw and asked my husband to go and build his personal house to avoid problems since everyone in the family knows her with trouble we left my hubbys home town to my place spent 3days and returned back to PH, now i have 1,650,000.00 in account i want to release the money to my hubby to build a house is it right and can we build 3bed room, kitchen and toilet with the amount of money.......Thanks.

50 SECRETS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE 1. Trusting each other 2. Same sense of humour 3. Always being honest with each other 4. Remember birthdays and anniversaries 5. Accepting each other's faults 6. Compromising 7. Saying 'I love you' regularly 8. Knowing when to say sorry 9. Being able to laugh at each other 10. Having a similar outlook on life 11. Regular hugs/cuddles 12. Always kiss each other goodnight 13. The occasional romantic gesture 14. Considering your partner to be your best friend 15. Sharing the parenting duties 16. Always kiss each other goodbye in the mornings 17. Having some shared hobbies and interests 18. Always talk about a problem rather than bottling it up 19. Ask each other about their day 20. Regular sex 21. Having some different hobbies and interests 22. Knowing when to give each other some space 23. Never going to sleep on an argument 24. Regular holidays/mini breaks 25. Having similar aims and ambitions 26. Having the odd argument or disagreement 27...

For the Ladies 2 Don't base your decision to marry someone on "Things" by this I mean let there be more enduring values and reasons on why you want to marry him or her. Let me make it clearer for you to understand. If you marry him because he has money or because he is handsome, you will soon see other men who are far richer and more handsome that he is, someone that will make him look like a beggar when you compare the two of them. If you marry her because of her beauty and straight legs, you will soon see other ladies who will make her beauty look like ugly. What you thought was the BEST was only so because of what you were comparing it with. So the key you should always look out for are those attributes that are not always visible to the optical eyes. You want to know what they are????? Watch out for part 3 For the ladies part 3 When making decision whether to marry someone or not, there are certain things you should look out for. Forget the fact that he/her...

HOW DO I KNOW THAT A GUY TRULY LOVES ME? Part 2 He introduces you to other people He’s not excluding you from his circle of friends The answer to the question ‘Does he really want to be with me’ is exactly this. If he is more than willing to introduce you to all the people in his life that are important, then he really wants you in his life. The signs that he really loves you are when he holds your hand in public with no shame, takes you to family celebrations, and introduces you to his co-workers at company events. A man who is not ashamed of his woman and considers her a part of his life, is willing to do that and more. That’s a definite symptom of being in love. He uses the ‘WE’ instead of ‘I’ You and him are like two pieces of puzzle that fit in perfectly A relationship means that you are a team. You enjoy together, laugh together, and make decisions together. If your guy acknowledges that, and uses the word ‘we’ more often than he uses the word ‘I’ than you are in luck. Well,...

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HOW DO I KNOW THAT A GUY TRULY LOVES ME? Part 1 The emotions are waking up. If you’re in love, or in a relationship you sometimes wonder ‘Does he really love me?’ We don’t blame you, because men are creatures of mystery. And so are we to them. We spend our lifetime thinking about them, puzzled by all their actions, words, and emotions. We’re here to make that lifetime of research a bit easier. We have gathered for you a couple of things that will help you find out if he really loves you or is it just a game to him. These are the signs a guy really likes you, so don’t go too far. Does He Really Love Me? 6 Signs That Reveal Whether He Is Madly in Love with You, or That He Is Playing You and You Should Run for the Hills You’re not changing yourself too much He isn’t trying to change you at all The way to get the answer to the question ‘Does he really love me or is he lying’ is by thinking about how he looks at you. If he is not trying to change your personality, or the way y...

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HOW TO DISCERN YOU ARE IN A WRONG RELATIONSHIP 1. You regularly wake up in the middle of the night, or in the morning and ask yourself, with a nagging ache in your soul, ‘Why am I in this relationship?’ You are probably in a wrong relationship . 2. You are frustrated and confused. It seems as if you’ve lost your way. You feel out of sync with life and this person. You have this sinking feeling in your stomach that you are being drawn into something terrible, something bad. It is a feeling like walking in a desert when what you want to do is walk beside a beautiful ocean or lake. 3. You experience emotional, mental and financial abuse. Your partner threatens to leave you if you don’t do as he/she says. He/she uses great sex, lots of money, exceptional beauty, social power or even the knowledge of ‘God’ to manipulate you to remain in an abusive relationship. If you are in it for the sex, the money, the social status, the approval of your friends or for power, it is definitely a rel...