For the Ladies 2
Don't base your decision to marry someone on "Things" by this I mean let there be more enduring values and reasons on why you want to marry him or her.
Let me make it clearer for you to understand. If you marry him because he has money or because he is handsome, you will soon see other men who are far richer and more handsome that he is, someone that will make him look like a beggar when you compare the two of them.
If you marry her because of her beauty and straight legs, you will soon see other ladies who will make her beauty look like ugly. What you thought was the BEST was only so because of what you were comparing it with.
So the key you should always look out for are those attributes that are not always visible to the optical eyes. You want to know what they are????? Watch out for part 3
For the ladies part 3
When making decision whether to marry someone or not, there are certain things you should look out for. Forget the fact that he/her calls you 20 times day, or that he takes you out, these are all ok, any playboy can do that, the above should NEVER be the main reason for your decision in this 'all important decision of your life" marriage.
The truth is that man is a spirit, his/her body is just his house, so the real person you are getting married to "is not the body" it is not the fine face, or her curves, you are getting married to the inner man of this man, that part of him that can not be seen with the physical eyes. So that's where your main interest and concentration should be.
I know this may not sound like the popular thing the movies and magazines will tell you. It does not matter whether you believe it or not. This is the fact. So look for that man/woman who has compassion, look out for how they treat others. If someone treats you right, calls you sweet names and all those romantic stuffs but mistreat and abuses others hmmmmm you need to watch it. When you hear her say I will give him a piece of my mind, brother be careful.
To be continued in part 4
For the Ladies part 4
Most ladies think they are the only ones who are being chased around by guys, this is not true. The guys sometimes are been chased around by the ladies too. Let me give a picture of what I am talking about. Any man that is intelligent, handsome and has some money is a candidate of wooing by the ladies.
The same type of pressure ladies face from the guys, the same pressure the guy described above faces. The difference is that the guy hardly talks about the advances made at him by ladies to his lady. To him, it is one of those normal things that should not even be talked about with his lady.
At the other hand, because the ladies are emotional being, they will like to tell their man about the numerous advances that men make at her. So, for the fact that your man is not telling you of all the ladies that are wooing or making advances at him does not mean they don't, he chooses not to talk about it to you because he is a man.
Is this True or False? Lolz
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