HONEST HELP NEEDED



Am a lady who believes that true love still exist. Please ma I need Ur coach on something vital to me. Something about me is that if a guy approach me for a relationship if I don't like him I tell him off immediately no matter the pressure from him I still tell him off. They always think am playing hard to get. However if I like him I accept, with this way of mine I have dated 2 that lasted for long due to some understanding factors we had to separate.
Recently have not been lucky with my normal way. 

Now please I need your guide on this. I met a guy who told me his intentions that he wants to settle down. At first I didn't put my interest in him but after our first date( in an open place) I started developing this feelings for him but never told him or let him know. Have been praying to God too about it but I just need some few ideas from u because am not an expert on this. What are the things I can do so I don't look desperate, I can still have mine integrity ad also have him as mine because atimes I will be having thoughts he could be making his offer to someone else.
Am so so so sorry for the long write up

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