7 steps to a healthy relationship

As a lady you should be in control of the relationship indirectly. You decide when sex should be involved it in. You determine the progression of the relationship. You determine whether there should be touch, holding hands, kissing, hugging etc. You have the power to control the relationship, you do, believe me. Except in an instance of rape, no man sleeps with a lady without her consent. So, who should be blamed when the relationship does not go through the normal progression? The guy? NO.

There are 7 steps in building a lasting relationship, Strangers, acquaintance, friends, relationship, engaged, courtship and marriage. But what happens most of the time, the lady takes what belongs to level 7 of the relationship and gives it to the guy in level one. She jumps the ladder and the result is usually regret. Relationships are not for gambling, your heart is too precious to be gambled with. Take things easy, take your time, why the rush? you will soon get tired of emotional affection. Control your emotions, take the relationship one step at a time. It is better to be late than to be late.